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Coming out story

Buddies. I'm not straight. My mom knows. She's okay with it. She loves me.

(UPDATE MY DAD DOESN'T AND WILL DISOWN ME IF HE FINDS OUT PLS DON'T ACCIDENTALLY OUT ME FRENS)

It was not always this way.

In a time of panic and haste, on May 8, 2017, I came out to my mother as pansexual. It did not go well. She was devastated and asked the universe "why me" and asked me to change. She asked me to break up with my girlfriend and for the sake of the family, become straight. She believed it was a choice I could make. She called it a phase. She called me abnormal and felt disgusted and horrified. She could "only understand that something had gone terribly wrong".  She cried through the night. I stopped digesting food. We stopped talking. I claimed to have broken up with my girlfriend to shut her up and get her off my case. I asked that I be left alone while I get over it. She thought I was trying to get over the break up. I was trying to get over being called…